We’ve Moved!!

FemmeFluff.com

I know I know, it’s been weeks in the making (ugh so frustrating) but I’ve FINALLY got the new URL up so check it out and update your bookmarks!!

I will no longer update whatlike.wordpress.com

Untitled: On that Personal…

Dammit, I want a girlfriend and I don’t want a girlfriend. I am not in a place to have a significant other. If someone cute and compatible walked passed me tomorrow, I’d probably try to avoid them. I need time to get myself together (on multiple levels). Of course this is all while I b*#ch about not seeing anybody cute and available around here (when I am ready I’d like to know what my prospects are…). At the same time I’m seriously lonely and cry about it sometimes. It’s hard. How do you manage not being in a place for a significant other and yet wanting one?

I learned my lesson about trying to get with people just because I was lonely. I started hanging out with this dude (it was about this time to the day 2 years ago) because he was nice, cute, and I wasn’t doing anything else. Of course it lasted all of about 2 weeks (and now I have to live with the fact that my first kiss was w/ a 24 year old dude who pathetically didn’t know how to kiss). I don’t want to make that same mistake of getting with somebody “just because…”.

Yet it seems like the world is filled with nothing but couples when you’re single and it irritates the hell out of you (me). You (I) just want to claw both their eye’s out so they can’t make googly eyes at each other anymore.

(Note: I’m actually glad the green eyed monster has begun to rear it ugly head within me. Why? I used to have no desire to couple and romance…largely b/c I hadn’t discovered my sexuality yet. I thought for the longest time that I was unfeeling towards having someone romantic to be with. Sometimes having a negative feeling is better than having no feeling within you at all.)

Soo…How About Blogging?

I know I’ve been MIA from my blog lately. I haven’t been taking a break though, hardly! I’ve been blogging since 2005, and have moved from AOL hometown pages (remember those? lol), to blogger, to wordpress.com. I feel it’s time to step up my game and own a domain. So that’s what I’ve been busy with.

I love blogging, all aspects of it. I know IFB (Independent Fashion Bloggers) has articulated the many “hats” one wears in maintaining a blog: writer, editor, techie (html, css), graphic designer (possibly), researcher, fact checker, etc. Above all though, you have to be compelled to write. You have to have the desire to have others read what you wrote.

Up until a few months ago I always considered blogging my way of “finding myself” and “wasting time”, never thought of it as a hobby. I guess it is though. Speaking of hobbies I’m about to get a new one (more on that exciting news later, lol).

Kelis – Milkshake (Rockamerica Remix)

They really should have an extended mix of this…I listen to this over and over.